❓ Frequently asked questions

Answers about red flags in dating and chat, about the Chat Red Flag Simulator Charfsi, and about your account, credits and privacy. Use the quick links to jump to a section.

Red flags & practising safely

What are red flags in dating and chat?

Red flags are signals in behaviour or communication (including in apps, chat or WhatsApp) that may point to crossed boundaries, unwanted pressure, manipulation or patterns that feel risky to you. Not every irritation or disagreement is a red flag: context and repetition matter. Charfsi helps you practise recognising patterns in a safe simulated environment. It is an educational tool, not a diagnosis; if you are acutely unsafe, seek immediate support from emergency services or professionals.

Is a red flag simulator the same as a dating app like Tinder?

No. Dating apps focus mainly on matching and connecting with real people. Charfsi is a Chat Red Flag Simulator: you practise with an AI persona in a simulated WhatsApp-style chat and receive a personal report with insight into warning signs and your own communication patterns. There are no public profiles of singles; the goal is learning and reflection, not dating.

Why should I practise first with a simulated chat?

In a simulator you can explore scenarios at your own pace: how do you respond to compliments, pressure or jealousy, and where do you want boundaries? That builds self-insight without taking immediate risks on a real date or chat. The report summarises patterns so you can be sharper in real conversations later.

What is the difference between a red flag and a disagreement?

Disagreements often involve preferences (humour, pacing, plans) where both people respect each other's boundaries. Red flags more often involve patterns where your boundaries or feelings are consistently ignored, undermined or pressured. If you worry about safety, speak with someone you trust or seek professional help.

Is Charfsi therapy or a substitute for professional help?

No. Charfsi is an educational practice tool with reporting; it is not therapy, not a crisis service and not medical advice. If you have concerns about safety, mental health or relational violence, seek appropriate professional or crisis support.

Are my practice chats used to train AI models?

No. Your conversation is not used to train public AI models. Details about processing are in the privacy policy on liv-coaching.nl and in our explanations about privacy and your report.

Using Charfsi (product & account)

What exactly is Charfsi?

Charfsi is a Chat Red Flag Simulator: you have a realistic WhatsApp conversation with an AI persona that can mimic different types of people. After the conversation you receive a personal report with insight into potential red flags and recommendations. This way you can practise safely before encountering similar situations in real life.

On which devices does Charfsi work?

Charfsi works on desktop, tablet and mobile. You use Charfsi in your browser – no app required. Whether you're on your laptop, tablet or smartphone, you can practise safely anywhere.

How long does a test take?

A conversation lasts a maximum of 20 minutes. You can also end the conversation earlier – your report will still be generated. There's no rush: you set the pace yourself.

How do I receive my report?

Report generation takes an average of 2 to 3 minutes – depending on the length of your conversation. After the conversation you can download the report directly (PDF, Word or HTML) on screen. You also receive it automatically by email. Only you have access – fully discreet and confidential.

What can I expect in my report?

Your report contains: (1) a summary with risk level – how many red flags were seen and what the overall risk is; (2) conversation analysis – insight into communication patterns, emotional dynamics and how the conversation went; (3) red flags explained – per warning sign what it means, why it stands out and what you can do with it; (4) practical recommendations – concrete tips and next steps, tailored to your conversation.

Do I need to install an app?

No. Charfsi works entirely in your browser. No download, no installation – you log in on the LIV website, buy credits and start right away. Works on desktop, tablet and mobile.

Is my data safe and private?

Yes. Your conversations and reports are for you only. There are no shared profiles or social feeds. We handle your data carefully according to our privacy policy. What you practise stays private.

How do I buy credits?

Create a free account on the LIV website, log in to your dashboard and buy credits there. 1 credit = 1 test + report. You are only charged when you actually start a test – if you cancel before your first message, your credit stays.