💜 For women who want to discover their own blind spots in their dating behaviour

Why do you keep falling for
the same type?

Practice realistic dating chats in a safe AI simulator. Receive a personal report that reveals your communication patterns; sharper and more objective than the concerned advice of your best friend.

Chat for up to 20 minutes with a realistic AI persona
Report within 3–4 minutes: red flags you missed + your own communication patterns
100% private: your conversation stays with you, never used for AI training

▶ Start free See sample report →

Spring launch · 99 of 100 free credits left · no credit card

🧠 Built by LIV Coaching·🔒 100% private: never used for AI training·📧 PDF via email · HTML/Word download after the test

Not a dating app. Not a personality test. Real insight into your relationship and communication patterns.

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Live simulation

Hey beautiful, where are you right now? 😏

just now

Why aren't you replying?

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You're my exception. I can just feel it.

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Charfsi

Your Charfsi Report

Risk score

High

🚩Love bombing

🚩Controlling behaviour

🚩Ignoring boundaries

✨ 5 tips for youPDF + e-mail

💜 For women who want to discover their own blind spots in their dating behaviour

Do you recognise this?

In hindsight you know you missed red flags — but during the conversation you just couldn't see them.

Friends say you trust too quickly — but you never feel it yourself when that point is reached.

You've had 2 or 3 relationships that all ended the same way.

"If only I'd seen that sooner." You know that feeling.

Yes — I want that to change

How it works: in 3 steps

From your first scenario to a personal report in about 25 minutes.

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1. Pick your scenario

Choose a persona type (love bomber, distant charmer, jealous ex…) or let Charfsi surprise you.

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2. Run the chat

Chat for up to 20 minutes max via a realistic WhatsApp simulation. Reply how you really would. You may stop earlier, but the longer you chat, the sharper your report becomes.

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3. Receive your report

Within 3–4 minutes a personal report lands in your inbox: patterns, red flags, and concrete tips tailored to your answers.

A peek inside your report

This is what you'll get, right in your inbox

A personal report with the red flags you missed, your own communication patterns, concrete alternatives and tips. Not generic. Based on your actual conversation.

Sample report — based on a fictional test account

View a full sample report →

Built by LIV Coaching

Grounded in LIV's coaching methodology: the same approach we use in our 1-on-1 coaching sessions.

100% private

Your conversation stays yours. Never shared, never used for AI training.

Report in your inbox

Ready within 3–4 minutes. PDF via email plus HTML/Word download.

Spring 's in the AIr

Free Charfsi Credit for the first 100 sign-ups!

Terms: The campaign starts on 21 March 2026. Sign up on the LIV Ontwikkeling & Coaching website with your name, email and phone number at www.liv-coaching.nl/en/charfsi-free-preview.

After sign-up we'll call you for a short conversation to activate your free credit. No sales pitch – just a quick introduction.

The campaign runs until all 100 free credits are claimed.

* Valid for women only. LIV Ontwikkeling & Coaching reserves the right to grant or withhold the free credit at its discretion.

/ 100 still available

What you receive

This is what you're really buying

Chatting with the AI persona is not the goal, the insight afterwards is what you actually get. Every report is uniquely tailored to your answers.

Charfsi Rapport

PDF · Word · HTML

Your Charfsi Report

Scenario: The charmer · 12 minutes

Risk score

High · immediate attention

🚩 Love bombingStrong

🚩 Controlling behaviourPresent

🚩 Ignoring boundariesSubtle

5 tips for you

✓ Set boundaries earlier when getting compliments…

✓ Watch the pace of intimacy-seeking questions…

✓ + 3 more in your full report

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Risk analysis

A 0–100 score with clear per-flag explanations

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Pattern mirror

How did you reply? Which pitfalls do your answers reveal?

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Red flags explained

Concrete examples from your conversation: not generic lists

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Your growth path

5 personal tips + suggestions for a next scenario

📧 PDF straight to your inbox · HTML/Word download right after the test

Awareness tool

Charfsi is not a dating app. It is an awareness tool.

You are not here to match, but to gain insight into red flags, boundaries and your own relationship and communication patterns.

Product

Goal

Report

Dating app (Tinder, Bumble)

Real matches, real people

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Therapy / coaching

Personal therapeutic process

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Charfsi

AI chat simulator → personal insight report on red flags & communication patterns

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✘ No profiles, no swipes

✘ No "AI boyfriend" or role-play for fun

✓ But a personal report full of usable insights

How exactly does the simulator work? →Read: Charfsi vs dating apps →

Created from LIV Coaching

Charfsi was created by Christel from LIV Ontwikkeling & Coaching. Based on her experience with coaching, relationship patterns and personal development, the idea emerged for a safe practice space: not to date, but to understand yourself better before repeating the same patterns again.

More about Christel →

Charfsi helps when you recognise yourself in these questions

Recognising red flags in dating and chat, setting boundaries, seeing through love bombing: Charfsi gives you the practice space and the personal insight report.

Why do I keep falling for the same type?

How do I recognise love bombing or manipulation in chat or WhatsApp?

What are red flags in dating, and when are they truly alarming?

How do I set boundaries in conversations without pushing him away?

What do my replies reveal about my own communication patterns?

Start practising →

What others say

Real experiences from women who tried Charfsi.

“Het chat gesprek was realistisch. Je krijgt een uitgebreide rapportage met adviezen en tips om een gesprek meer te sturen en om alerter te worden op bepaalde signalen van je gesprekspartner die opvallend zijn.”

Nicole van den Borne

All reviews are manually verified and come from real customers. Share your experience after your test and help other women make a conscious choice.

Tried Charfsi? Leave your review in your dashboard at liv-coaching.nl.

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Fairly priced. Instant results.

One scenario = one credit = one full personal report.

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3 scenarios — explore multiple personas and spot your patterns.

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5 scenarios — deep pattern analysis across different types.

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No small print

No subscription — you pay only for what you use.
Pay safely with iDEAL or credit card: one-off checkout, no cancellation to worry about.
Credits don't expire — use them whenever you want.
Your report is yours to keep — PDF in your mailbox, plus HTML/Word download right after the test.

💡 For context: 1 coaching hour at LIV costs €145. With one Charfsi report you get concrete takeaways within half an hour.

Frequently asked questions

About red flags in dating, Charfsi as a product, and what your report contains.

What are red flags in dating and chat?

Red flags are behavioural patterns in communication — including in apps or WhatsApp — that may signal crossed boundaries, pressure, manipulation or love bombing. Not every irritation is a red flag: context and repetition matter. Charfsi helps you recognise those patterns in a safe practice environment.

Is Charfsi a dating app?

No. Charfsi has no profiles, no matches and no real contact. You practise with an AI persona in a realistic WhatsApp simulation and then receive a personal report on red flags and your communication patterns. The goal is self-insight, not dating.

What does the Charfsi report contain?

Your report includes: a risk score (0–100) with per-flag explanations, a pattern mirror (how did you reply?), concrete examples from your own conversation, and 5 personal tips. Not generic — fully tailored to your answers.

Are my chats used to train AI?

No. Your conversation is not used to train public AI models. It stays private and is only visible to you.

Is Charfsi therapy or a substitute for professional help?

No. Charfsi is an educational practice tool with an insight report — not therapy, not a crisis service and not medical advice. Worried about your safety or mental health? Please seek appropriate professional or crisis support.

All frequently asked questions →